Tips for starting college or university

Starting a new phase of your life is an incredibly exciting time but it can also feel pretty overwhelming. Millie, 19, shares her advice for all those entering a new chapter this September.

Date: 18th September 2024

I remember my first day at university. I was so terrified that I started begging my parents to turn the car around and take me home! I didn’t know it then, but university turned out to be one of the best things I’ve ever done and by the end of my first year, I was heartbroken to leave.

One of my biggest fears back then was trying to navigate a new way of life by myself, plus the added pressure to make friends quickly.

Best laid plans

I remember I had a big plan for how I was going to find friends but, in the end, I found my group of friends completely naturally. I just happened to get chatting with the girl sat next to me in my lecture who then invited me out that night. That’s where I met a group of friends who I not only got super close with but am now currently living with as well! Sometimes things just fall into place without you even trying!

If you’re heading off to university or college, a useful tip is to check if your school has an app or group for meeting other students. I did that before university, and a few of us arranged to meet up and go to our first lecture together, which made the ‘first day nerves’ so much easier! 

Another idea is to explore the area a bit before you officially start. Maybe take a walk around town or try out a route you’ll be using regularly.

Getting familiar with the place can take away some nervous energy and help you feel more prepared. 

And here’s the biggest thing to remember: take a deep breath. It sounds simple but it’s easy to get caught up in the stress and forget that everyone is feeling the same way. Feeling nervous before starting a new phase of your life is completely normal! It just means that you care, and honestly, that’s a good sign. Nerves aren’t necessarily a bad thing; they’re proof that what you’re doing is worth it.

So, if you’re anxious about this new chapter, that’s okay! It might end up being one of the best times of your life! 

Millie is 19 years old and, this September, is excited to be starting her second year at Bangor University.